WHY ARE’NT BOYS JUDGED?

This question will, of course, put you into the frame, the place where I am.

I am not feminist (maybe), nor a leader of the women empowerment team.

I am a girl, and I love to talk(and heard), I love giving respect but love it more when we get it back too. 

I am very aware of the fact that gender equality is a very controversial issue, and I will want people not to dodging themselves from this.

P.S. IT IS NOT ABOUT BEING A GIRL OR BOY, IT IS SIMPLE #RESPECT.

WE ALL ARE HUMANS.

Why aren’t boys judged?

SO, why is it that only girls are questioned?

I recently had a very strange conversation with a friend of mine, it was about an MMS leak in some news. His exact lines were “that slut was continuously looking in the camera”! I was very shocked by his remark, firstly how was he sure that she was a slut and secondly was he was himself watching the MMS? The whole story he conveyed had 2 things involved – The slutty girl, the camera in which she was looking continuously, his story had no male person involved. And when I asked him about it he said- boys are of this type ( ladke to aise he hote hai!). I was speechless and yet here again I am. Shouldn’t I? We argued but it was lame and useless because he had his points “ladko ka kya hai……..”.

It is such a quaint that rabbles are just babbling about #girls. 

They quote as if –  OH! YOU ARE GIRL, LET ME JUDGE YOU – YOU ARE QUITE FAT, SO HAVE YOU… YOU ARE SO FIGURELESS, YOU WEAR SHORT DRESS, ARE YOU TRY TO ATTRACT MEN? OR YOU WANT TO GET RAPED? YOUR BREAST ARE SAGGY! YOU MUST NOT STAND TALL AND BROAD! HEY! THAT MAKEUP MAKES YOU LOOK LIKE A WHORE! YOU ARE SUCH A BEHENJI! HOW LONG AND TIGHT DRESS YOU WEAR! 

OH! So you don’t talk to boys, are you lesbian? You hang out too much with boys, you are such a bitch! You might be the kind of girl who takes advantage of boys! I wonder how?

Let us talk about some stereotypes-

GOLDDIGGER-

THE BEST ONE- #golddigger, (P.S. Make sure that you have enough gold to say that).

I think Men (Strong&Successful Men) often forget that when a girl leaves her inheritance property, its alms for them. 

You can create your thoughts accordingly. Society has given pavement to such thoughts and thanks to #pyarKApunchnama. It becomes sadder to hear this from girls 😦 (No offense to anybody, We have heard them )

Men have this thing of “advising” women all the time, teaching them the meaning of right or wrong! Often defining to them etiquettes that suit their fancy. 

If things don’t go well according to them, they have their weapon of “all” kind to use, abuse and misuse.

They physically molest and verbally abuse you until they win over you(definitely not in a way they should) 

Well, I am not being a #feminist! I am being a human instead. We #females have the right to live the way we want.

VIRGINITY-

“Look at that girl, she is not a virgin….who will marry her?” As if she is a product once used and expired. I am very curious why MAN’s virginity is never an issue.
I still don’t understand and I never will. Are you virgin? Have you ” lost ” it? I mean seriously. #correctness and better word would be “share” which is her choice. Am I wrong?

ACHIEVEMENT-

If you get more marks or a better place in the industry you work or let us say – “Promotion.” Goddamn, you have made an impression on the boss!

Dear Boys- Sycophancy is not our cup of tea 🙂

WHAT CAN BE MORE FRAGILE THAN A MAN’ S EGO?

A slap from a girl! Sounds ego hurting right. But there are so many cases where a woman has suffered from assault, molestation, warned for acid attack, and sometimes RAPED just because of the fragility of “little” ego!

Here comes the inability of men to handle their “another” organ.

Bodyguard-

HE -Let me come along.

SHE -NO! I am okay, I will manage.

HE- Please Let me so that I can protect you from OTHER BOYS?
I will surely take care of you.

(IT IS VERY KIND OF SOME GUYS WHO GENUINELY WORRY AND CARE..)

But, for some boys who think that they are Stud enough to look after us or to take care of us, it would be better if they take off their eyes from us – WE Might FEEL MORE SECURE AND PROTECTED. And most of our problems will be solved.

BEAUTIFUL BUT DUMB- GENIUS CUM UGLY.

A MOST STRANGE AND COMMON STEREOTYPE !! A genius friend of mine had posted on some website ” why is it difficult to find a beautiful girl with the genius mind?” Well, bro, you are too qualified to put this lame question. I had an answer if considered – DUDE! You study in a college where there are 8 girls out 100 students, what a ratio to compare. Even if you are, beauty is a relative term, you must look into your inner self first!

SEXIST-

So INDIAN HA? Familiar with maa ki, Behen ki, and even beti ki???? Ever heard baap ki. Bhai ki, beta ka…! I am sure – NO!  Our language is also sexist, so if you think I am – yes I AM! NO ISSUES 🙂

P.S. I am quite a girl and I am ready to be judged, the time has been changing and women are evolving but the stereotype is constant. 

I read somewhere “LADY! YOU ARE NOT A MAN AND TRUST ME YOU CAN NEVER BE! BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT A THING TO BE COMPARED. BUT RESPECTED AND VALUED 🙂 “

Keep your heels high and walk loud, keep your smile broad and open to scope to life.

" IF YOU THINK YOU ARE MAN - JUST BE!

A TRUE MAN RESPECTS A WOMAN."